Seeking Obedient Asian Woman
Write a message


  • Age:
  • 29


Steven is an aging white man obsessed Any bbwthick women in st older fucking marrying an Asian woman, dreaming of a devoted young wife. Sandy is the young, feisty, ambitious Chinese woman he finds online. This engaging documentary follows their tumultuous love story. For years, twice-divorced airport garage attendant Steven has been writing to numerous women through an online dating site that specializes in connecting Western men with Asian women. At times, his pursuit seems like utter fantasy.


An Asian fetish is a strong sexual or romantic preference for persons of Asian descent, specifically East or Southeast Asian descent and sometimes South Asian descent. The fetishization of East Asians by people of other ethnicities is sometimes described by the derogatory term yellow fever.

Chinese brides: submissive, obedient, and stone-cold killers?

Asian women are often stereotyped as subservient, passive, and quiet. This portrayal persists today, along with the idea of Asian women—and, to a lesser extent, men—being exotic and submissive. In the afterword to the play Ladies want nsa East Rutherford. Butterflythe writer David Henry Hwangusing the term "yellow fever", a derogatory pun on the disease of the same namediscusses " Caucasian " men with a "fetish" for east Asian women.

The pun refers to the color terminology for racein which persons of East and Southeast Asian heritage are sometimes described as "Yellow people".

About the author

The term "yellow fever" describes someone who is inflicted with a disease, implying that someone with an Asian fetish has a sickness. Hwang argues that this phenomenon is caused by stereotyping of Asians in Wailuku girls looking for marriage society.

Other names used for those with an Asian fetish are "rice kings," "rice chasers" and "rice lovers". Inafter a two-year study on dating preferences among Columbia University students, researchers did not find evidence of a general preference among White men for Asian women.

Furthermore, the study found that there is a ificantly higher pairing of European-American men with East Asian women because East Asian women are less likely to prefer African-American or Latino men. The study took data from "thousands of decisions made by more than daters from Columbia University's various graduate and professional schools".

An Asian fetish places a psychological burden on Asian women, who may experience doubt and suspicion that men who find them attractive are primarily attracted to features related to ethnicity and culture rather than other traits or characteristics.

Another effect of Asian fetish is that it may cause its targets to feel like an Otherbecause they are isolated and held to different standards of beauty. Because of Asian fetish, an Asian woman's racial difference is either seen as a failure to conform to mainstream Western standards of beauty, Adult xxx Padworth dating text chat local Southington sluts as something that can be appreciated only on an alternative scale.

Men with an Asian fetish are also affected by the stigma that accompanies the term.

NPR correspondent Elise Hu offers that this can be a Beautiful lady want hot sex Winston-Salem of insecurity in Asian women's dating lives, asking: "Am I just loved because I'm part of an ethnic group that's assumed to be subservient, or do I have actual value as an individual, or is it both?

Writer Agness Kaku believes the mainstream Western culture undermines efforts to combat sexual harassment associated with Asian fetish.

Noting how frequently women of Asian descent are subjected to verbal and online harassment, Kaku argues that Asian fetish "thrives on double standards that make light of racial Lick my old pussssssytonight against Asians" and states this downplaying leaves women vulnerable to stalking and violence. Asian Americans' body dissatisfaction has been linked to the way they are often portrayed in the media as sexual yet innocent, nerdy, and emotionally inept [18] as well as the prevalence of White people in media.

Asian Americans tend to have a wide range of body Ladies wants nsa WI Wisconsin rapids 54494, with some studies saying that they have less than White, Black, and Hispanic Americans while others say they range somewhere in between.

This tends to be attributed to the fact that Asian-Americans are viewed as " Forever Foreigners. This concept applies in different ways depending on the context.

In this case, it means that the "true" American is considered to be the European American, and all other Americans are considered something else before they are considered Americans. So, to try to fit in, some Asian Americans may attempt to achieve traits they consider White.

These girls specified that they tried to achieve these traits because they were things that they believed White men and boys found attractive. Since the beginning of the twentieth century, the Westerner's image of the Asian woman has been seen as subservientloyaland family oriented. In preparation for a documentary on Asian fetish called Seeking Asian FemaleChinese-American filmmaker Debbie Lum interviewed non-Asian men who posted online personal exclusively seeking Asian women. Things that the men reported finding appealing in Asian women included subtlety and quietness, eye-catching long black haira mysterious look in dark eyesand a propensity to give more consideration to how their partner feels than to themselves.

Lum characterized the stereotype associated with an Asian fetish as an obsession Casual Dating Wenham Massachusetts 1984 seeking "somebody submissivetraditional, docile Asian women may be viewed by White men with Asian fetish as "good wives", [25] as in they are perceived to be Warwick Rhode Island cougar sex to properly take care Woman looking cock in Ross-on-Wye their children during the day and fulfill their partner's sexual desires at night.

In interviews done by Bitna Kim, "Caucasian" men explain their fetish for Asian women. The Caucasian men interviewed fantasize that an Asian woman possesses both beauty and brains, that she is "sexy, intelligent, successful, professional, caring, and family oriented"; that she does not wear Seeking obedient asian woman girl clothes" and heavy makeup, and that they are not high maintenance. They all believed that Asian women have submissive sex.

They believed that an Asian woman did not mind putting her partner's pleasure above hers. Sincemarriages between Swedish men and Thai women have become increasingly common. Historically, the of Thai women marrying White men began to rise in the s and s as a result of Prime Minister Sarit Thanarat 's economic policies which attracted foreign investment and White men to Thailand. There is a social stigma in the country against Thai women marrying White men, but research published in indicated that an increasing of young middle-class Thai women were marrying foreign men.

A generation earlier, Thai women marrying foreign men had mostly been working class. Sources indicate that Sri Lanka is popular among Western "marriage bureaus" which specialize in the pairing of men who were "Europeans, North Americans and Parkman WY adult personals westerners" with foreign women. Data published in Need a Laramie Wyoming difficult relationship that an estimatedtoGerman men annually travelled abroad for sex tourismwith the Philippines, Thailand, South Korea, Sri Lanka and Hong Kong Woman seeking casual sex Kahului Hawaii their main destinations.

This idea is based on the stereotype of "the Oriental woman" who is considered to be beautiful and sexually exciting as well as caring, compliant and submissive. According to Sex chat line Virginia Beach article, a study focused on Hmong American high school girls reported that due to dominant popular culture, girls had internalized "the image of the White American family as 'good' and 'normal,'" in contrast to their negative gender experiences in their own Hmong American households and the lack of positive depictions of Seeking obedient asian woman or Asian people in popular culture.

The girls thus doubted that marrying Hmong American men would lead to a family with gender equity Safe fun nsa sex they desired. The article further detailed how the girls attempted to achieve what they saw as White traits to be attractive to White men or boys. There are relatively few representations of Asian people in Western media.

Asian women in media tend to be portrayed in two ways: as exotic foreigners, docile and nonthreatening and sexual but also innocent, or as the nerd who is still aesthetically pleasing, but also emotionless and career oriented. This le many Asian women to believe that they have to be in one of these boxes. It tends to convey the message that if they are smart, they cannot be sexual; or, if they are Ladies seeking hot sex Feeding Hills, they tend to not be aware of it.

Media in America that features racial diversity tends to be Women seeking sex tonight LaBarge centered. This means that, if the character is not White, they tend to be Black. While there is the occasional Asian or Hispanic person, they are often there for comedic value rather than actual input into racial Sex of agra. This may make America appear to be comprised only of Black people and White people, with Asians in either a limbo space, or a bubble where Asians only exist among other Asians.

For Asian Americans, the ideal body is influenced by the media they see.

Cookie consent and choices

Women tend to lean towards traits that distinguish between Asian American women and White American women. For example, one trait that is held up in Asian American communities is the double eyelid.

In her essay "Hateful Contraries: Media Images of Asian Women", British filmmaker Pratibha Parmar comments that the media's imagery of Asian women is "contradictory" in that it represents them as "completely dominated by their men, mute and oppressed" while also presenting them as "sexually erotic creatures". Asian women have traditionally been stereotyped in mass media in the United States.

The "Lotus Blossom Baby" is a feminine and delicate sexual-romantic object. In contrast, the " Dragon Lady " is treacherous and devious, and in some cases a prostitute or madam. Tajima suggests that this view of Asian women contributes to the existence of the Asian mail-order bride industry in the US. It is argued that media may be furthering the progression of the Asian Adult looking nsa Glassport stereotype.

This can be seen in movies, where Marriage mature fucking Kalamazoo women are characterized by submissiveness.

Seeking asian female

A sexual obsession with Asian people expressed by non-Asians. This article has multiple issues. Please help improve it or discuss these issues on the talk. Learn how and when to remove these template messages. The neutrality of this article is disputed. Sweet seeking casual sex San Francisco California discussion may be found on the talk.

Please do not remove this message until conditions to do so are met. September Learn how and when to remove this template message.

Seeking asian female?

The examples and perspective in this article deal primarily with the United States and do not represent a worldwide view of the subject. You may improve this articleLa porte TX sex dating the issue on the talkor create a new articleas appropriate. This article's lead section may be too short to adequately summarize the key points.

Please consider expanding the lead to provide an accessible overview of all important aspects of the article. March Sex dating in Cottageville Retrieved 24 March Retrieved 30 March Chou, Rosalind 5 January ISBN Women and capitalist development in Sri Lanka, Report. Bulletin of Concerned Asian Scholars.

New York: Plume Books. The Guardian. Archived from the original on 2 February Retrieved August 22, Journal of Homosexuality.

Asian fetish

PMID Journal of the American Philosophical Association. The Harvard Crimson.

Retrieved 3 June Huffpost Women. Psychological Bulletin.

Top girls


Posted April 2, Reviewed by Kaja Perina.


From the article :.